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Relationships are not just about finding someone who you connect
with emotionally and physically; but also mentally.
Someone who understands how you look at life, someone you can have deep conversations with, someone who
really gets you.
Someone who is like you in enough ways so that you can both communicate
on the same level; but is different in enough ways to keep it interesting.
Someone you want to travel the world with.
You have to find the person interesting and fascinating. You both
have to want to talk about stuff together every day.
You should feel like you connect in a way that’s different and
special; it has to be a mental connection. Your minds should become one. It should
feel like you have known them forever.
It’s not just about caring for them and wanting to kiss them and
hold them and be with them every minute. You should be interested in the other
person’s past, future and present. You should care about where and how they
grew up. And who and where they want to be.
You should never run out of things you want to tell the person. It
should be about communication; being able to just talk to each other.
You should find it fascinating; the way they think about life.
You should spend every day trying to figure out how their mind
works, yet also understand exactly how they think.
If you can talk about life, death, religion, past loves,
parents, family; your dreams and future plans, your fears, your favorite
things; all the places you've been and your favorite places to go, and all the places
you have yet to explore... That’s the kind of relationship that you want.
Written by Ariana (wolfwhisperer23)
Date Written: 05-04-14
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